You're right, of course
Thanks for the change in perspective.
This sort of thing just pushes my buttons. I started writing because I had the feeling of not being listened to, and I figured if I worked on my craft I'd finally find my audience. I just have to remember that they're not going to be there for every event.
The other thing that pissed me off was the only thing I got from the cafe was a free cup of coffee that only would have cost about a buck anyway, and their coffee is bitter crap!! ;)