death doesnt require vengance or hate. that will not satisfy the hurt. if u think that your dead friends have anything to do with retaliation, I'm glad im not smoking what you're smoking. its to prevent more dead friends. dont be so self centered, its they that died, not you.
his/her message was not advice..
it's at most, unlikely wishful thinking
i lost a sister a few years ago, and I'd never go parading
that to make any kind of point no matter what as at fault.
come to your own terms, and let others come to theirs.
dont be so rude as to think your experience or opinion is above anyother's or that your plight is unique.
learn from others mistakes and correct what you can.