i need to keep this post bookmarked for persuing before i go out book shopping next.
i am currently having an extreme bout of depression and low self-esteem so everything i'm reading is momentarily of the 'self-help' nature.
but this too shall pass, as they say, i will return to my regularly scheduled sexy self, one day.
thanks for these. i'll definitely look them up. it sounds like you know what i'm looking for, anyway.