so what you're saying is that
she herself was one of those people whose "love is atrophied, who need war to feel alive, and who find in violence and clash a semblance of relationship. relationship by hatred" and for whom "war is the great pleasure" (?)
Is that what you mean when you say "...you just feel it, and when you put the most fitting words to it, it rings true all throughout your body."
I'm not sure what you're saying here...